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Who are your people?

It's important to have a tribe: those people who get you, from planting to good grammar to cattle shows, and all the life in between.

Holly Spangler, Senior Editor, Prairie Farmer

May 15, 2016

2 Min Read

We were seated around a living room one evening this spring, mugs in one hand, tissues in the other. Pajamas for sure. We’d flown in and drove in from all over the country for a Bible conference in Chicago, and we sat and talked about the real and the hard.

I looked around with misty eyes and knew it for sure: these are my people.

I was invited into an online bible study years ago with these women who do what I do, from all over the country. We love cows and pigs and farms and ranches, and nearly all of us photograph it and write about it. Some have babies and some don’t, some are graduating kids this year, some are married to farmers and ag teachers and more and some aren’t.

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That’s all to say we have a lot in common, and when somebody asks for prayer for the show pig that’s gone off feed, or for the child who’s about to sell his steer, or for the husband who’s still out planting, nobody bats an eye. Because we get it. We are our people.

They've carried me through dark days, through death and emergency rooms, through funerals and hard decisions. They've rejoiced when deadlines are met, when decisions were made, when showmanship was won.

Lately, I’ve thought how important it is to have people who get you. To have your tribe that loves and cares and shows up for you. And to know how different that can look in 2016.

These women and I are scattered from Illinois to Idaho, from South Dakota to Texas. We communicate via text and phone call and blog post. Some of us see each other more regularly, at meetings and shows and conferences.

Maybe your tribe is down the gravel road. Maybe it’s your family. Maybe it’s the farmer next door or the guys you went to college with. I can tell in an instant by my husband’s laugh when he’s talking to his people. The ones that get him.

So take a minute to consider: who are your people? And how have you connected with them lately?

About the Author(s)

Holly Spangler

Senior Editor, Prairie Farmer, Farm Progress

Holly Spangler has covered Illinois agriculture for more than two decades, bringing meaningful production agriculture experience to the magazine’s coverage. She currently serves as editor of Prairie Farmer magazine and Executive Editor for Farm Progress, managing editorial staff at six magazines throughout the eastern Corn Belt. She began her career with Prairie Farmer just before graduating from the University of Illinois in agricultural communications.

An award-winning writer and photographer, Holly is past president of the American Agricultural Editors Association. In 2015, she became only the 10th U.S. agricultural journalist to earn the Writer of Merit designation and is a five-time winner of the top writing award for editorial opinion in U.S. agriculture. She was named an AAEA Master Writer in 2005. In 2011, Holly was one of 10 recipients worldwide to receive the IFAJ-Alltech Young Leaders in Ag Journalism award. She currently serves on the Illinois Fairgrounds Foundation, the U of I Agricultural Communications Advisory committee, and is an advisory board member for the U of I College of ACES Research Station at Monmouth. Her work in agricultural media has been recognized by the Illinois Soybean Association, Illinois Corn, Illinois Council on Agricultural Education and MidAmerica Croplife Association.

Holly and her husband, John, farm in western Illinois where they raise corn, soybeans and beef cattle on 2,500 acres. Their operation includes 125 head of commercial cows in a cow/calf operation. The family farm includes John’s parents and their three children.

Holly frequently speaks to a variety of groups and organizations, sharing the heart, soul and science of agriculture. She and her husband are active in state and local farm organizations. They serve with their local 4-H and FFA programs, their school district, and are active in their church's youth and music ministries.

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