Yes, this is an unusual thing to be blogging about. In recent months, I've gone to funerals of two farm friends, and came away from both thought-filled and inspired. That's as it should be.

Like most of you, I'm not fond of funerals. I don't even want to attend my own! But a funeral or wake can be a wake-up call with redeeming value. That's why I'm writing this.

I was reminded of a few things, none of which the preachers preached. The "few things" were wake-up calls – inspirations shared by those blessed by the lives of those who had passed on.

One thing I discovered was that there was more to both of these men's lives than I was aware of. As someone far smarter than me once said: "The unexamined life isn't worth living."

So consider these 9 examination points

Understanding these things helps keep or restore our life balance. All things begin new, reach a point of highest yield, then whithers to ultimately give way to a new crop.

As for me and my final deposition . . .
My family and a few others know I did my best for them – not for myself. I hope they were inspired, and that it'll be part of my legacy.

The rest of my plan is pretty down to earth. Just pour my ashes into a coffee can (preferably high-caff, American grown) and haul them to the back fence of the cemetery of my family roots. Then, toss them into the wind – downwind, of course – over that fence, to be spread over the cornfield – or soybeans, if that's the rotation.

The Bible says "dust to dust." But I figure I've got a little extra fertilizer value, and can root a couple good ears of corn. And for now anyway, it need not be reported on the farm's nutrient management plan.

Taking these exam points seriously, you, too, will leave more than ashes behind.

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