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What does a 10-year friendship separated by half a continent look like? Think late-night talks, lots of giggles and big hugs.

Holly Spangler, Senior Editor, Prairie Farmer

January 10, 2019

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Aimee Howerter, Aubrey Somers and Caroline Spangler
TOGETHER: Big airport hugs were quickly followed by a check to see who’d grown the most, and then — as always — falling right into the conversations that have marked their friendship. From left: Aimee Howerter, Aubrey Somers and Caroline Spangler.

“You’re finally here!”

The words came in a rush of relief, buried in a three-way hug as three little girls clung to each other in the airport, jumping up and down. Squealing in excitement. Separated by half a continent, they hadn’t seen each other in two and a half years. That’s a long time for anyone, but especially when you’re only 10.

Their story goes back to the very beginning: Aubrey, Aimee and my daughter, Caroline, are friends since birth. Kinda before, actually — Aubrey’s family moved here when we were all pregnant with them.

When the girls were 4, Aubrey and her family moved to California. She and her mom came back to visit when they were 6, we traveled there when they were 8, and now, at 10, Aubrey and her mom flew to Illinois for a week. Even better: It was a combined Christmas-birthday present for Aubrey, who got one heck of a surprise on Christmas morning: “Pack your bags, we’re flying to Illinois tonight!” Cue all the happy tears.

I’ve marveled at this friendship over the years. Facetime convos that mostly consist of silly faces and tours around their rooms (motion sickness, beware), birthday celebrations and violin concerts. Always laughing, encouraging, plotting. Writing letters and sending pictures, and crafting long emoji-filled texts on their moms’ phones.

It’s a deep, heart-felt friendship, and one that picks right up where it left off. I marvel at it every time.

Their Christmas week together was basically one long sleepover, at either our house or Aimee’s, and it 100% reminded me of the 40th birthday trip I took with my friends-since-kindergarten from home: constant talking and laughing, peppered only by occasional sleep. Not really caring what we did, just grateful to be together.

It’s the kind of friendship we all need. Friends forever. No matter how far.

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About the Author(s)

Holly Spangler

Senior Editor, Prairie Farmer, Farm Progress

Holly Spangler has covered Illinois agriculture for more than two decades, bringing meaningful production agriculture experience to the magazine’s coverage. She currently serves as editor of Prairie Farmer magazine and Executive Editor for Farm Progress, managing editorial staff at six magazines throughout the eastern Corn Belt. She began her career with Prairie Farmer just before graduating from the University of Illinois in agricultural communications.

An award-winning writer and photographer, Holly is past president of the American Agricultural Editors Association. In 2015, she became only the 10th U.S. agricultural journalist to earn the Writer of Merit designation and is a five-time winner of the top writing award for editorial opinion in U.S. agriculture. She was named an AAEA Master Writer in 2005. In 2011, Holly was one of 10 recipients worldwide to receive the IFAJ-Alltech Young Leaders in Ag Journalism award. She currently serves on the Illinois Fairgrounds Foundation, the U of I Agricultural Communications Advisory committee, and is an advisory board member for the U of I College of ACES Research Station at Monmouth. Her work in agricultural media has been recognized by the Illinois Soybean Association, Illinois Corn, Illinois Council on Agricultural Education and MidAmerica Croplife Association.

Holly and her husband, John, farm in western Illinois where they raise corn, soybeans and beef cattle on 2,500 acres. Their operation includes 125 head of commercial cows in a cow/calf operation. The family farm includes John’s parents and their three children.

Holly frequently speaks to a variety of groups and organizations, sharing the heart, soul and science of agriculture. She and her husband are active in state and local farm organizations. They serve with their local 4-H and FFA programs, their school district, and are active in their church's youth and music ministries.

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