Summers go by fast, even for us who live where summer weather lasts long. But that’s a good thing. But a summer to a kid isn’t just a season; it means good, hot outdoor weather absent the schoolwork.

The son is in high school, and the daughter is in elementary, both equal parts goodhearted, smart, sassy and spirited.

Working from home, as many of us have done even before it became fashionable, can be a challenge during the summer when you throw in the ‘kids-ain’t-in-school’ variable.

My wife, who also works, and I do the logistical dance accommodating the kids’ summer coming and goings in sync with our work responsibilities, which do not take a summer break. You understand this well, I know. We also get plenty of good help from the family on that dance.

That said, this summer for us stands out. It felt more unfettered. Our home became a hub for get togethers, with family coming in from many directions, flying in over big water or driving down from nearby states. Some coming in for the weekend and some staying with us for a week or more. Birthday parties, holidays or friends just coming and going was the norm this summer. We also enjoyed visiting nice places with friends and family. Nice places in the hot summer.

During these good times and gatherings, I made myself pause to take a moment to look. I saw our kids enjoying good fellowshipping with their kin and friends, some older, some younger, some the same age, and some they don’t see often. I saw fertile ground for good things in their lives. That’s a blessing we can’t take for granted.

Summer is a time to see our kids grow in different ways, ways outside of school, learning and living summer things, lessons that will help them reap the good things as the fall season of life comes. I know my many summers have taught me a lot. What to do, what not to do and what to do more of as often as I can, regardless of the season.

For your kids, grandkids or loved ones and for you, I hope the summer’s been a good standout. And we wish your loved ones safe return to school, unfettered by things you wish them not to be fettered by.